Dont put a act on when you see her/him

When you first meet, dont pretend to be a person you are not. You have to be yourself and not the person you think she/he wants to see. Im not saying dont be charming, just simply dont over-do your chracter. If she/he truley loves you and wants to get to know you more then they will respect all areas of your personality and not just the charming side. This meeting may result into something more serious,if the feelings neutral. The worst thing you could do is pretend you were this big shot over the internet, telling them that you were loaded, always funny, big strong, caring, generous. If you big up your personality too much, this will come through on the incounter in the first couple of minutes, so you have been warned!