Don't Jump for the Newcomer

When you've been with someone for a while, it is very easy to be swept away by a newcomer. The hormones rush when you meet up with new smells and textures. You build fantasies about how things "could be" with the new person. But what you learn after years of dating is that that new-person freshness always fades after time. It's the way of life. Be sure that you are comparing as fairly as possible. Don't go for the rose colored glasses effect of new love.