Mixed Signals

Teen guys really have it rough. They are bombarded with images of teen girls "going wild" - dancing around naked. They get all these movies about girls going for the Bad Guy. But then they also know that they should be a gentleman, treat a girl nicely. When they try their very best, girls laugh at them. It is really rough.

It is really important that you treat a guy as a worthwhile human being. Guys rarely have a good role model to use on how to act. They are trying their best to figure out what to do. Sure, they make mistakes. It's not the end of the world. Help them learn what you appreciate. Give them positive feedback. It's the only way the guys will come to figure out what is appropriate behavior where you are involved.