Sometimes its easy to try and end things cold, cut them out of your life, and never contact them... but its the hardest thing in the world. what you really need to do is heal your heart, and move on from the pain. If the events were particularly painful, lets say they cheated on you over and over again, and now they are with a person they cheated on you with... forget it. try not to imagine them in bed together. don,t be obsessive. try to rationalize why someone would do that, why YOU would do that in a situation... and move on. Forgetting all their ills is the same as forgetting THEM... there is nothing like a healthy dose of amnesia to get over somebody :-)
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