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To love is to suffer

My bf and i had been going out for 4months, most people told me to break up with him because they said that I was going to get hurt or i was too good for him,Of course i never listened, this went on for a while. my own grandparents tried to bribe me to leave him bacuse they didnt like him, but I never took the money because I had something special with him. After a while he asked to take a break and to get some space, we both thought it was for the best so we went our seperate ways. The next day I was invited to a Harley rally and I called all my friends to see if they could go, then I thought that maybe I should call one of my guy-friends to come along, he was also my ex bfs friend and I saw him no more than a friend so we all went to the Harley rally and had fun, got home later that night. The next day he invited me out to hang with him, a few of our friends and my ex, I wanted to see my ex so bad since i hadnt talked to him for a couple of days. that night he was acting really strange around me and I thought i had made a mistake by going along. He went into Walmart and left me and his buddy at Sonic and we ate there and talked about why he was acting so weird because his friend noticed it too. I went home and at about midnight, my ex calls me and asked if i liked his friend and of course i say no, but he swore up and down that i was recorded saying that to his friend at Sonic, i asked for proof but said that his friend had it, so i called him and his friend had no clue what i was taling about. I called back my ex and told him that I had never said that and my exact word were " why would I say that, I told you that I love you and no one else. why wont you believe me?" "Yea right what ever your only making this harder on yourself by lying to me" i cried and begged him to please listen to me but he refused and said it was over permenatly. I cried and ate brownie batter the whole night. I began to realize that I was so in love with him that it ripped my heart in two to hear him say those words to me. Later I was told by certain people it was a set-up for him to break up with me and so he wouldnt feel bad about leaving me, he turns the tables and tries to make me feel like the worst person in the world. I realized that I was so foolish and that when his own friends start to tell me to leave him, that i should have probably listened, love made me blind. I started to see another guy later and he treats me with so much respect, something I really never got from my ex. Now I realize that I never had what i really wanted from him who i once loved so dearly, and still do. He was what everyone said 'he is going to love you, get tired of you , and leave you for someone else.' If I had maybe listened to them then I might not have been hurt so badly. I can't be afraid to love again though "To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down." -Woody Allen

I dont regret any of the memories that we shared together. He taught me that Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end.


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