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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
There is this girl. She is pretty popular and attractive. I have always had a crush on her. The only reason I think I have a chance is because she is dating this ugly dude who isn't cool at all. Her friends make me nervous to talk to her. How do I get her to like me or how do I ask her on a date?

User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female

That's the trouble with people these days.We tend to look on the outside of a person instead of whats in their heart.I know some people who are really attractive,but,they act like jerks and I know others who are different such as being overweight,wearing glasses,too tall or short,etc and they are very sweet people! Talk to this girl and find what the two of you have in common(hobbies and such) and then try to know her.Don't date her simply because she is pretty! Looks fade,personality doesn't!!

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