Does Losing your Virginity Hurt?

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How much does it hurt for a teenage girl to lose her virginity and how does she know if she's ready?

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Tell him slow or fast

if you are a female girl, just expirencing with intercourse, and is thinking about loosing your virginity
i advise you to think long and hard if you really consider going through with the intercourse. Because if you are not sure you can get hurt. My first time it was a little painful, it hurt for about 15 min, then after that it was ok. However it really wasn't all that pleasureable. But in the end it became somewhat an ok expirence. My second time , it hurt like hell, but after awhile it was ok. You really need to know the person, before you decide to just go through with it.i knew the person very well and because i am in love with him, and he is my lover i could trust him to take it slow with me. So men do not relize the pain that comes with the sexual feeling. You need to tell him up front how you feel about it, and whether you want him to take it slow, or fast. But i advise you not to go very fast, or it will really be painful. But never just have sex cause everyone else is. you have to want to , and not be presured. Thats just how i feel. period

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