he tells other women on this internet site that he cannot wait to see them and that they are beautiful

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I am 22 years old and I am expecting my first child. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and I continuously find things out that I disagree with. For example he tells other women on this internet site that he cannot wait to see them and that they are beautiful. It really hurts me because he dosen't even say those things to me. He does not deny anything he says he just says hes sorry and he really had no intentions of hurting me or of seeing these other women. by the way this is a site i also meet friends on, and you can comment on one another like many of my friends do, but being that I don't I guess I am suprised that he does and I do not know what to do about it. Please give me advice. I have asked him to delete it, and he said he would, but he still has not. Please help I am curious to know what I should do about this

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Don't deal with him

My advice to you is that you shouldn't even deal with him. He is doing something that hurts you and it is hard to read anything harmless about his intentions. I understand you are pregnant, but to me the only thing that could possibly make him grow up is your leaving (actually doing it, not threatening to). Then you will see what is really important to him.

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