Jealousy causing problems
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I've realized that my boyfriend is very jealous and it seems that he doesn't want me to have any male friends. A friend of mine from school called me the other night and my boyfriend got upset and told me he doesn't think he can trust me because i have too many male friends. How am i supposed to prove to him that he can trust me. HELP me please. It's been 3 days and he hasn't spoken to me.
User Submitted Advice from a 61-70 year old Male
Marginal price to pay
Chances are you relationships with other men are a little too chummy.
I wouldn't trust you either.
Someday you will find a guy that fits your bill and you will drop these male friends without a thought.
Maybe your boyfriend will find somebody else and you won't need to worry about him not talking to you.
The bottom line, there is always a marginal cost involved and you need to decide whether that is the price you want to pay.
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