Talk to him
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have had the hugest crush on this guy since 4th grade. I fially asked him out he said no he does not want a girlfriend right now but it's been about 3 months now and durring school he always stares at me and he will stick up for me and hold doors i love it my friends say I should talk to him but I try and he'll say hi and stuff but that's it not like he use to realy talk to me. I'm confused does he like or hate me I know he's not shy because he is always around other girls. help!!!!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
I Stayed Friends
Hey I know exaclty how you feel. This same situation happened to me when i was in grade 9. I had an enormous crush on this guy i knew since kindergarten! I had a friend ask him out for me. He said no, he didnt want to ruin our friendship. For the first little while it was really hard for me, but i got over him and found a new awesome guy in grade 10. He and I are still friends and you know what, i'm kind of glad nothing happened between us because it could have really hurt our friendship. I'm sure whatever happens between you and this guy will be for the best!
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