Does Losing your Virginity Hurt?

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
How much does it hurt for a teenage girl to lose her virginity and how does she know if she's ready?

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
I'm Scared

I'm 14 almost 15 years old and my boyfriend wants to have sex. I am scared because I don't know what my parents will think. I have been with him for 3 months, and i love being around him. There is not one minute that goes by that I wish he was here with me. I just don't want my friends and family to hate me for what I plan on doing.

[RomanceClass note - if you are scared, then you should not have sex. If you love your boyfriend that much, then you should be willing to wait. Sex is not something to rush into to prove anything. Plus if you have only been dating for 3 months, have you really tried EVERYTHING that comes before sex - all the variations? If not, why would you skip them all? Finally, all sex involves a risk of pregnancy. Are you ready at age 14 to be pregnant and raise a child? Give this a lot of serious thought. No protection form is 100% reliable.]

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