She's got Lots of Male Friends

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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I have been going out with my girlfriend for two & a half years now. My main problem was the fact that she is selfish. When we started going out she said that I should know that she has male friends, I acknowledged that, but what bothers me is the fact that these guys call her at night all the time and lately she has been getting calls from her friends' boyfriends.

I spoke to her about it and she said she's not the one asking them to call her. (Yet my problem is she is encouraging it). I know for a fact that great relationships are the ones that from friendships and that makes me feel that she is going to end-up with one of them or she is/ has cheated on me with one of them. It's a feeling I get and I'm unable to prove it.

I alaways thought I was paranoid but sometimes you can only go with your gut feeling!

What do I do?

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Let Her Have Friends

These best friends respect her and know that she has a boyfriend, and they consider her just as friend now even before, they like her.

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