Checking out other girls

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
my boyfriend and i have had this issue with him checking out other girls right in front of me for a long time. we have talked about it a few times but he always tries to avoid the conversation. well the other day, i tried talking about it with him and all he had to say was "i can't help it... it is just something i have always done". now honestly, that sounds like something that should have stopped a year ago when we started dating. does he just have no interest in what i have to offer? i really dont know how to fix this!!!

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Ignore Him

Hey! I know EXACTLY what you mean! My boyfriend does that too! But everyone i talk to tells me all guys are like that. They just cant help it! I HATE it! Hey think of it this way tho. at least he doesnt tell you oh look at that one i'd do her or i saw this hot girl at work and i was staring at her ass all day! Like geez! My boyfriend does that.. i just try and ignore him.. But yeah if it seriously bugs you ask him to stop or if he must... do it when your not around!

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