Does Losing your Virginity Hurt?

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
How much does it hurt for a teenage girl to lose her virginity and how does she know if she's ready?

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He's Pressuring Me

I havent lost it yet but there is a guy that is very pushy about it and he had me on the ground forcing it. But i didnt do it, i know thats not right yet i still want to lose it to Him.

[RomanceClass says - this really is NOT a guy you want to lose it to. No guy should ever, ever force a girl at all into this. That is called rape. You may laugh it off, but all abuse starts somewhere, usually with emotional abuse and pressuring. If a guy doesn't respect you about something this important, he is never going to respect you about other aspects of your life. Talk to a parent, teacher or other adult about this. Really and truly. Hopefully you have seen enough movies by now about abusive guys and how women can get sucked into things by just 'going along' from the beginning.]

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