How long to wait before having oral sex

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hey george,
my boyfriend and i are so close and i have told him i love him and all that stuff but we both agree that the things we do now are just boring. he wants me to give him a blowjob but we have only been together for 2 months. if you have any experience with this stuff, what do you think would be the right amount of time for me to do it? i have no idea how long until it seems appropriate so that i dont feel like a slut. i would do anything for him but for some reason this seems to take more thought then the rest of the things we have done. i need help. what is the perfect length?

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female

my oppinion is that 2 months is not enough! gah you barley kno him gurl! i totally understand where you are coming from! but let me tell you this...hypathetically speaking of course..if you do break up and you did do that stuff it is gonna hurt so bad! you will feel like your world is completly over b/c it may not seem like a big thing but if you loose your virginity to someone then yall break up there is no getting it back! save your body! and you will save your heart from a lot!

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