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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
there is a guy that i've known for 8 years and we practically grew up together. I've liked him for 4 years. He is really nice to me and will listen to me at certain times but I will never tell him about personal things that goes on in my life. I don't know for sure how he feels about me but i heard from my cuz saying that his best friend told him that hez known me for so long that he started to think of me as a sister but he sort of has feelings for me. I thought about and what if i've always thought of him as a brother. I really like him but i also like being friends with him. Can u help me.

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female

I think you may need to continue to be his friend until furthre notice, because your feelings and his feelings are both confused. You need to really take your time and think this situation out, and pick out the pros and cons. Ask yourself, "Do I really want to "be" with this person?"

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