He hates my family because he loves me...

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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 18months. We have lived together for the past 10 months. We never fight about anything between each other except the occasional child rearing disagreement. He however cannot stand my family! He thinks they are inconsiderate to my needs, try to overstep their boundries with my daughter, and disrespect to our relationship. While I agree with most things he feels I do not agree with his constant family bashing. I know they are not perfect but they are still my family and I love them. It causes fights because I get defensive and then he gets upset and then domino effect... He says he doesn't like them because he loves me and dosen't like the way they treat me but shouldn't he be sensitive to the fact that I still love them and am trying to see the positive?

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Only love matters

tell him the only thing that matter is we are both in love

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