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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
Hey, I am a pretty woman after all the weight loss. and several men have shown an interest. but I am someone who will become quite attached to one man once every few years and no one else. It's the way I am and I can't change that. I have started to like an Irishman who is living in Australia, more than I expected to. I am wondering how to stop myself from becoming too interested? I feel that he might return to Ireland in 2 years time, as he has said that he will stay for another year. He has spoken about taking things to the next level. but also said he misses his family and country. I've never felt this way before. it happened unexpectedly and I am wondering if I should take a chance or stay away. I will miss him if he leaves.


User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Time will tell

from what you say i think your beginning to fall for him...If you love someone so much your willing to let them go. He'll be surprised but that will also be hard for you. I know how it fells. Been there done that. Maybe he will come back maybe he won't time will tell...

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