Why isn't he more sexual?

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi Me and my boyfriend have been goin out for two months no and we have kissed and hugged and we talk to each other about everything but i dont understand why he is as sexual or perverted as other guys. dont get me wrong i like that he's sweet and nice but i want him to be more aggressiv than just gently doing everything . He does to uh my butt and stuff but he just doesnt do it hard enough and i always have to make the first move. I am tired of making the first move. We talk about everything but i just cant bring myself to talk to him about this wwhat should i do.

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Tell him

He seems like a gentleman and he doesnt want to hurt you. but he might not know that u want him to be more agressive. you need to tell him!

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