Why am I like this?

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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months. About 3 months into the relationship, he cheated on me. He continued to date her for 2 weeks then told me he realized he messed up and wanted a chance with me. I gave him that chance.

Now, I find myself jealous of every girl that talk to him. I don't trust him and I feel like it's killing our relationship. He has a job that he gets hit on alot, and I get so jealous. He tells me I have nothing to worry about but I dwell on all the girls that try to go out with him.

Last night we almost broke up. I need help! I don't know how to move on.

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Once a cheater

I think you should dump him! If he cheated just 3 months into the relationship he will do it again someday. Once a cheater always a cheater! Find an honest loyal man, they are out there you just have to look hard....he should give you the same respect you give him.

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