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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
ok here it goes...i hav a female friend ...we r very close to each other & we always flirt with each other ,we r in this relationship since one whole year ...few days before i said i love her &she is not believing i convinced her alot for 2 days that i really love her ,she is sayin that may be i should not talk to her for awhile & i didnt talked to her since last 3 days...i think she is scared that i will betray her in future ..i m just not getting how to make her understand that i really love her ...there is one more problem also -i can talk with her in phone only(she went to her hometown) BUT about one thing i m sure about her-she doesnt want to lose me
so plz tell me what do i do now how do i make her understand that i really love her

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Don't pressure

George is right.One peace of advise that I can give is like fishing you already gave her enough attention.Let her chase you a little bit if she likes you.Tell her youll call her back and dont call till she calls you.Thats when youll know how much she wants to talk to you.Dont scare her off by preasuring her into a relatioinship.

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