best friend forever

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
my best friend is a guy, and over the summer and last year we became very close. e talk about everything together. but mostly we talk abot sex.jokingly he says i act like his mom. acccidentally i hit him ya know where it hurts and sometimes he will say i'm too chicken to touch him there on pupose and he starts to move my hand toward there. sometimes he'll say he's gonna poke me in the boob and he does. he throws things down my shirt and things like that. a lotof people thinnk we're dating but we're not he even made up a story about us being cousins we look alike so every1 believed him. i would agree he likes me but all he talks about now is other girls and forces me to listen. i think i'm in love with him, he's my bff does he like me back? i love it when ya kow we talk about sex and get inyo play fights and he ends up hittig me in the boobs or something is that wrong? do i love him like a son or does he think of me as his mom? help!

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Tell him

Ok, from girl to girl I say tell him!
But tell him in a way that says "I'm in love with you but I don't want to risk our friendship."
And if he doesn't like you, well I guess the other option is to move on.
Then again, you can wait for him to stop talking about the other girls.
Oh, and why do you let him punch you in the boobs?

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