shes going out more with her ex and not telling

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
well ive been with my girlfriend for about 2 months now, things moved pretty fast, but i noticed that there was always, always someone who wanted her (shes very good looking) and i cant always know whats going on. i know that she cheated on her last boyfriend, but it was by accident, she said she didnt plan it, i believe that because i know what happened, but her boyfriend is still interested in her. i know her myspace password and i read her messages, and for a while he went away, but recently hes talking to her again, and hes always asking if shes still with me. but then i noticed a strange message, he asked her to go out and get high, and she said ok. now its not the most comfortable thing thinking that your girlfriend is going out with her single ex boyfriend who still wants her, and is going to go get high, and in her backyard too. and when i asked her what she was doing that day she just said going out with her friends, and thats it. as a matter of fact, she said she wanted to go out with me today, but she ended up going out with him instead. if she chose to go out with him instead of me, then what does that mean? please help ='[

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Deserve the best

I just found out my girlfriend was seeing her exboyfriend for a year while we were together. She called him nicole in her contacts on her phone. Its hurts I know young bro. The thing is women run from everything, we try to face everything. Cheating is different for both sides and rekindling old romances while in a current one, for women, is very "romantic". The best you can do, is to be a man and remember that you deserve the best.

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