not time but hard to resist

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
hi. well, there's a girl i really like, and she told me she likes me a lot too, but she's not allowed to date until she's 16. so we still talk and i still flirt with her and whenever i see her at lunch or after school school we hug and she really likes it. i can tell. but the thing is, ever since i split up with (name sencored) i have really wanted to kiss her, but i know i shouldnt because 1) she's not allowed to date yet and so i have to wait and 2) it's WAAAYYYY too early to do that. so i have 2 questions
1- how do i get rid of my craving for intimacy? because i want to be able to respect her and not just want to do her and feel her body (i'm 14 and she's 14)
2- how do i completely get over (name sencored)? because if i ever start dating the girl i like now, i dont want to have any problems come up about having feelings for (name sencored)


User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Give her time

hi, i have some advice give her sime time and if she shows that she is ready for it go for it don't rush things give her a little time and the girl before just act like she doesn't exsist anymore you like someone else now so you can now move on from her and what ever happened.

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