I caught him cheating, now it's hard for me to go on with him

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My husband cheated on me for 3 months. I caught him and he came clean. Now i am having a hard time dealing with it. We had a great relationship. Sex was good and he had everything he wanted. I cry everyday picturing what went on when he was with this other women. When he kisses me I think he's thinking of her. He says it was a big mistake and I think that the only reason he says that is because I caught him and If I had not caught him, he would still be doing it. He says he never told me about her was because he tought that I would leave him. We have been together for 12 years. I am having a hard time dealing with all this. I can't smile around him, I just feel so empty.

Please help me.

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female

follow yournheart cuz if he did it once he'll do it again

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