she is cheating

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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I am with this girl. She is cheating on her boyfriend with me. She says she loves me and loves him. She says that she isnt going to break up with him right away or if she will. What should i do? Should i chalk it up as a loss or what? I know i love the girl and want to be with her, but at times its hard to deal with.

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Fish in the sea

RUN AWAY!!!! Imagine being that guy that she is cheating on. Imagine how bad he would feel if he found out. One day you will be her boyfriend and when your not new anymore she will cheat on you and you will be the guy she is hiding stuff from. If you want to be with her and really love her you need her to get to respect her self. And that means no cheating. If you don't she wont deserve you and that means she wont appreciate you. Also you got to be care full of her man. People kill each other over things like this. There are so many fish in the sea why do you want another mans heart.

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