Where do we stand?

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Well obviously, there's this guy I like (or else I wouldn't be here writing to you, now would I =] ) and I know that he likes me. We have been friends since the third grade, and just three weeks ago we were instant messaging and we both revealed to each other that we liked the other. My only problem is, I don't know if we are going out or where we stand relationship-wise. He flirts with me quite a bit and acts like we are going out privately (i.e. no PDA) and somewhat asked me to our Valentine's Dance ("Will you dance with me?"/"Of course."/Will you dance with me more than once?"/*smiles* "Definitely.") I would ask him myself where we stand, but he doesn't seem to really know either because his best friend keeps asking us whether we're going out and he just laughs him off. Thanks in advance George!

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female

it sounds like he may be shy. Just be careful though if you guys are friends, relationships can mess up friendships.... and a lot of guys just want relations not relationships...

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