Falling in Love with my Best Friend

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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My friend and I have dated many times within the past 8 years. We would be together for a month or so then not talk to one another for as long as 2 years. Now we are best friends and have an awesome relationship together.

The only thing is that I think I'm developing feelings for him again. The more I try to get close to him the more he pulls away. Then when I decide that maybe it's not right he shows interest in me again.

Do I just be honest and tell him that I have feelings for him or would that scare him away and I would lose that friendship we have worked for?

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female

I loved that you asked this and I loved the response. It ha helped me feel much better. Hope fully somethign will come out of our friend ship but it has to be mutual or elase he wont be happy with me at all

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