How can I get him to give me a chance?

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I am 14. I have really liked this guy for 3 years. I've always wanted to be his girlfriend. We soon became best friends. Last year, I made the mistake of following another friend's advice and writing him a note telling him how I really felt. It was probably not the first time he heard it, because all of our friends knew. He wrote back, telling me that he didn't want a girlfriend yet, he didn't want to ruin our friendship, and that he didn't have the money to take a girl anywhere. I still like him. He doesn't know that. I have asked 2 guys and a girl what to do. One guy said to talk to him. He said that guys love it when you tell them that you like them. The other guy and the girl said he might like me, but they didn't really know. We are still close friends, but I've never really talked to him seriously. How can I get him to give me a chance?

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Money not needed

well I had a friend named Js and I liked him alot and it was the same situation and I did the same thing so...................................................... mabey after what happend you could tell him that he doesnt need money to impress you.and ask him if you could have his number then try to ask him back out over the phone.

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