I am not only in love with two men for 3 or 4 years now but they are in love with me too

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Hallo, I'm 22 female. I have a problem hat is not that common it seems. I am not only in love with two men for 3 or 4 years now but they are in love with me too. Both of them want me for themselves. When I'm with one of them I want the other, then I break up and go for the other but then I regret it and get toghether with the first one. And all the times they both take me back. Both of them love me very much and think that I am the woman of his life. They are very differnt - one I've known for almost 10 years and he's been in love with me all the time.The other I know for 4 years and we've had some difficulties but now he doesn't want to share me with anyone, we tried to live together but it was me again who ran away.I realise I have no right to do that but I don't really know what to do anymore. There are too many memories with both of them, too many things connect me to every one of them.I'm tired of going in circles so please give me some toughtful advice for I can't think right any more.

User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female

I know where you are coming from ,cause I am there right where you are . I have been married now for 7 years and for the past three I have been living like a double . Dont get me wrong I love my husband but i am not happy at home,he does not act like i even excist unless i blow my top ,dont touch me ,etc...and the other one makes me laugh ,is always there no matter what for me or my children ,makes sure i have what i need, we always talk ...So now you see i know what your going through and yes they both love me and i love them ...I live with my husband and i have told him everything about the other person cause it was killing me inside always thinking of the other when i'm with hubby ....So i had to figure out whom would be there for me and whom has been there ,whom would please and whom would stand up for me ....no matter what heart ache i had for the other i had to choose and thats what you will have to do ........

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