I Cheat Constantly - Now What?
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
Ok~ So i have cheated on my girlfriend 4 times. And now I am feeling guilty. And this is the last person that I would ever want to hurt,I have been known to cheat on girls in the past, Its as if I take every chance I am given, But most of all I know how much she means to me and i really really do love her.
i know it sounds really strange for me to say this. But I really can see my self changing alot for this girl! Is there any hope for me to quit doing this and actually be happy with what i have? is it wrong of me to be with my girlfriend still even tho I do the things i do..? I need to stop doing what im doing because I know that I don't what to do this anymore!!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Change for yourself
Maybe you should stop concentrating on changing for her and start changing for yourself. You make a choice every time you cheat. you can make a choice not to. and what do you mean "Is there any hope for me to quit doing this and actually be happy with what i have"?? arent you? or are you just not happy with yourself? hmm
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