Guy makes date then gets cold

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
well, there's this guy that i've been talking back and forth with for the past year. and for the past year we've been saying we should hang out and meet up. just recently we've been talking on the phone. and we were suppose to hang out (he's the one who asked me, and made the plans), and then 2 days before we were suppose to get together he started avoiding me and this is what happens everytime. but then right after he says "oh so when we gunna chill", i dont get it? there is definately an age difference he's 20 and im 17. but he is an amazing guy that i can see. but why does this keep happening? im so confused should i just stop trying to get together with this guy? i mean he's the one always asking me to get together but still i was so excited about getting together yesturday, and when he went out or whatever he did i was so hurt. what do i do? please help!!

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female

this guy is so not worth it. take it from experience. he's definately just trying to make himself feel better to know he always has you around and when better things come up then he ditches you. move on and find a guy your own age and find a decent guy who doesnt take a year to meet you. you sound way more worth it and guys like that don't deserve good girls.
take my advice please save yourself the trouble of getting hurt

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