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I have been seeing a girl who just got out of a bad relationship. The same thing is true of me. Everything was going fine for 1 month, she set a crazy pace of calling me everday and texting me 4-5 times a day. After a month we slept together 3 times. Then she told me she was concerned it was only about sex. I assured her it was not and tried to take her on a date, which she then replied "I don't know if I want to date you." Then she stopped calling as much. Only texts me now for the most part, still responds to all my calls and assures me everything is fine, but she hasn't seen me in 2 weeks despite my repeated attempts. I am not sure how to approach this situation now.. should I back off and not call her for awhile? Or what is your advice on the best way to simply figure out what she wants.. because asking her doesn't work.

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male

speak other loves in frent of ur u love ones if she will stop lestening u will sucess

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