He Has a Girlfriend - He Spends Time with Me

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
im falling for this guy...the problem is he has a girlfriend. he always compliments me, and we talk all the time.he comes over and we just watch movies and talk. but then we started messing around.

i just cant understand- if he loves her, why does he spend all of his time with me? he hasnt seen her in weeks. i dont know what to do, and i cant talk to him to ask him whats going on. please help!

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female

Guys get sick of their gilrfriends so they want another just to spice things up a little bit in their lives. This boy will not dump his girlfriend if he hasn't already so if I were you I'd leave him before his girlfriend finds out and wants to kill you. He may say that he hasn't seen her in weeks so that you don't get mad at him. See that little line he's been giving you makes him seem like a good guy. I bet you more than 100 bucks that he sees her more that he may admit.

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