Why does he need it?

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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I know that pornography is a big subject. My fiance was out of town and I stayed over at his place to watch his dogs. I was using his computer and there are several files full of porn and five or more porn sites saved on his favorites list. I haven't spoken to him about it yet but I'm so disgusted by it that I won't let him touch me.

Why do guys seem to need that kind of thing? I can't help but feel like now I have to live up to those nasty, surgury enhanced girls. It makes me feel so horrible. We have been having issues with my jealousy for a long time and I'm afraid that he'll be mad at me for saying anything because not only did I pry but I'm also always jealous and suspicious. I have no idea what to do but I'm hoping to get a few answers.

Thank you,

Lonely and Jealous

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Just talk to him

its PORN. for pete sake. heres a clue. guys like porn cause of the reasons that guy George mentioned. But here is something else. Guys would never HOOKUP with girls like that. Guys would never go out with a girl over their current girlfriend cause of porn. All its gonna do is keep him excited when he sees you. Now if he is all over you when you dont want him to its a problem. Its kind of funny. Later on girls get ticked when their man stops being so arroused. Just remember. He is not going to expect you to look like them. He wouldnt want that anyway. No decent guy would. Thats why they turn to porn. Not cause your not like that but because NOBODY is. Except for those girls on that site. Just talk to him.

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