Does Losing your Virginity Hurt?

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How much does it hurt for a teenage girl to lose her virginity and how does she know if she's ready?

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I'm totally scared

I don't know what to say. I'm a virgin as well and I am scared to death of what it is gonna feel like. I am ready but just totally scared. I don't think he understands how scared I am at some times. He gets mad about it because I say I will but then when he asks me to.. I say no. He wanted me to have sex in a cornfield with him. It made me so mad and made me feel like crap, like am I that worthless to just throw me in a corn field and just screw me. But that's not what he's trying to say or think at all . I don't know what to do.


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