Is he interested or just having fun flirting?

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
This guy i have liked for such a long time is starting to be more flirtatious with me. We have soo much in common and he is really polite to me all the time. He keeps sending all the right signals! But i dont kno if he is serious because he has a girlfriend!!! Is he actually interested in me or is he just a player?

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
follow your heart

ok i went through that with my guy friend he was datin a gurl that had a little more in common with him then i did though, i thought i had no chance.But i just continued to be his friend but still be a little flirty....and we kinda built up our friendship and i one day out of the blue ask him if he maybe liked me a little more than a friend...And walk ed a way and then the nnext next day acted normal like i never asked him that an a week later he broke up with his girlfriend and started flirting more with me and we not dating yet,because im not ready just yet.But my thing is follow ur heart but don't let it lead u !!!!!!there is a time to let him know and then there's time where you just need to be cool and it will all come through in your favor!!!!!!!!

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