Girlfriend's Guy Friends

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My girlfriend has a lot of guy friends. She talks and hangs out with them more than she does with me. It seems to me that she gets hit on everywhere all the time. Some of them even admit that they like/love her, and yet those emotions doesn't bother her at all. I felt quite jealous everytime she mentions one of her guy friends, but I concealed it from her. It is normal for a girl to have multiple guy friends that like her? Should I just deal with my emotions and move along? Any advice?

User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Male
Don't have problem

I have dated these women. After time you can end up putting an awful lot of energy into not showing that it bothers you. And it is a no win situation if you do show it bothers you.

If you can cultivate a group of attractive female friends to hang out with while she is hanging out with her male friends, you can play that cold war, mutual destruction angle.

Really the only way to date this kind of woman is to truly not have a problem with it.

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