Jealous of the ex

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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have a great boyfriend. Un the past I had found out that he was hanging out with his ex girlfriend. He lied to me about were he was at that time, but I caught him in that lie. We both had talked and decided to drop it. We now have plans to get married, but i still find my self bringing up stuff from the past that involes the ex. The reason for that is she goes to his moms all the time. How can i stop wondering if them two are talking or messing around. How can i forget this all happened because I want to be happy and get married, but the ex is making me misable

User Submitted Advice from a 61-70 year old Female
Move on

Everyone knows to get to a man is either through his stomach or his mother. Why is she hanging out with his mother? To see him and to make sure his mom talks about her. You are going to be in the family. His mother should respect your feelings and stop the contact with his ex. And he should ask his mom to do this because it makes you feel uncomfortable. This is no way to start a life together. He would not like your ex hanging around. If they choose her over you, move on.

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