He says that it is my problem and I am insecure

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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
What about Porn? My boyfriend jacks off to porn on the internet and rents movies when I go out of town. I hate it. It makes me feel worthless ugly and like I will never be enough for him. If porn is what turns him on I will never be pretty enough or have a body like that. I feel like I just cant compete with something that is so fake perfect. Our relationship is really great except for this issue we never argue. He says that it is my problem and I am insecure. I agree I am insecure, low self esteem etc.
How do I just get over the fact that all men jack off to porn? Drives me crazy! Help!

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Don't lie

I think that was horrible advice..someone reccomending to you that you should lie and keep things hidden from your deepest relationship? perhaps you can come to some sort of comprimise...but this IS the person you fell in love with, correct?

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