Does Losing your Virginity Hurt?

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
How much does it hurt for a teenage girl to lose her virginity and how does she know if she's ready?

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Roller Coaster Ride

I really wouldn't consider losing your virginity as a teenager. I understand as a teen myself how hard it is to not feel pressured into having sex,but you have to really think something like this through. This is yout life we're talking about here, if you have doubts don't do it. You have to be comfortable, and feel relaxed and secure. For teens it definantly shouldn't be done on a whim, much less at all because of the emotional aftermath for the girls. I've had a lot of friends who had sex and got pregnant, and thats my worst fear. Some say they even used protection and they stil got pregnant. It takes to much care and consideration for just 15 minutes of pleasure you can get from riding a roller coaster at an amusement park. Please, think things like this through you guys. Honestly.

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