breaking up

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I don't feel happy anymore.. our relationship doesn't seem to have the glow it had before.. so I tried to break up with her. The problem is she uses our sex life as an excuse for not breaking up. (In our country, people are conservative that is why we don't acknowledge sexual activities liberally.) She told me that I am just using her because I told her that I don't feel enough love from her a long time ago. She was very sad because she felt that I used her. She also mentioned that I shouldn't have done it, if I wasn't sure about my feelings. Its really hard to be in this situation.. please help me..

>I told her that I was prepared to face the consequences of what we are doing everytime we make out.
>She is sacrificing our time for friends and other things.
>She isn't the person I've known. She doesn't show her love for her family anymore after we agreed to enter in a relationship.
>Things are not the same as they were before.

User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female

tell her to stop and listen to what you are saying, your not happy, if you stick around you will start hating each other, is she happy the way things are? dont stick around because shes sad.

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