I'm not interested nor do I have the time

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We like eachother. He hesitates to committ because he wants to figure out what he wants. He's leaving his wife after 28 years. We e-mial for 8 months. I make it clear, we can never be more than friends as long as they live together. It's understood. We continue writing and talking on the phone. Suddenly, no response for over a month. last message sent said he really liked me. However, actions speak louder than words. So I forget him. I don't want to date him, I'm not interested nor do I have the time.I miss the conversations, and relating to someone I have much in common with. I want to keep in touch, but just as friends. Because of a common interest we will be crossing paths next week. I want to make some contact before then. Otherwise, I'll just have to see how seeing him goes. I miss his e-mails. Your wisdom is very much appreciated.

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Are you fooling yourself? If you were married, would you want your husband to be e-mailing another woman?

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