He cheated I'm jealous he still calls her!!

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Im 32 yrs old married for 10 yrs to my high school sweetheart, and he has only had sex with me. He had never been with another woman, now in the past month he has confessed to having an affair with a women who is much older than him. He says he loves her.We seperated than decided to try to work things out, so we are back together. The problem is they still have phone and emil contact. I have told him that it makes me very jealous that he needs to communicate with her. She had said that she felt bad for talking to him and yet she still calls and she still answers his calls. I am SOOOOO JEALOUS that I can't see straight. I try my hardest to be calm but I just want to scratch her eyes out. I haven't called her or confronted her because I do not want to feel stupid for fighting for my man like im in high school. Any advise??? anything to help me.

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
lose him

women you need to lose his confusing ass and that chic he had an affair with dont feel sorry for shit your not in high school nomore apparantly hes acting like he his, girl go find your self a faithful man or just go out have fun and dont stress your self hes messing with your mind for reals if he really loved you he wouldnt be doing what he did your a better person then him

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