I don't know what to do, we've been getting in lots of fights lately.

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Me and my boyfriend have been getting in lots of fights lately. It started by me just talking to him telling him about how I feel about him not talking to me in person anymore, but then he turned it all into a fight. The fight was all online though and whenever he came on, he'd say hi and I wouldn't answer because I knew he'd start another fight if I did answer. Then if I don't answer, he'll start fighting with me again, but if I do answer, he'll still fight with me. And I told him I don't want to be fighting with him anymore but he still continues to fight with me. I seriously don't know what to do, all my friends are telling me to break up with him because he treats me badly. But I love him too much to break up with him but I don't know what I should do but if I try talking to him, he'll try fighting with me again. I'm so sick of these fights, I want these fights to stop. Please tell me, what should I do?

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Say sorry

I think you should just say sorry for fighting with him, even if it's not your fault. Tell him that you love him that will probably calm him down a bit.

I say, don't break up with him. Your friends might be jealous or something if they don't know that way you feel. You should listen to your heart, not your friends. Remember friends back stab you.

Hope everything works out

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