Does Losing your Virginity Hurt?

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
How much does it hurt for a teenage girl to lose her virginity and how does she know if she's ready?

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Wait for love

The question does it hurt is a hard one to answer because it only hurt for about three seconds for me but i think thats just because he was gentle and slow with me so just ask him to take it easy and it wont hurt so much, but as for finding the right guy that is really important to do because you will love him for a looooooong time after you loose your virginity to him and it doesnt matter if he is the biggest bitch to you you still will be so in love with him i know this because its been about 9 months since i lost my virginity and the only thing i can think about is the guy i lost my virginity to and i havn't even seen him since then well i saw him one time after it but it hurt reallllllllyyyyy bad because he was kissing another girl so when it comes time to loosing your virginity just know that you will love that person for the rest of your life so if i were you id wait until you both are truely truely in love with eachother!!!

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