He says to me that trust is the most important thing in a relationship
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My partner and I have been together for nearly six months now but have been great friends for nearly two years. Recently I have noticed emails to and from a girl he liked or still likes i dont know, saying they miss each other etc. He chose to be with me instead of trying to meet her but I can not stop wondering if he is only with me till they meet. I did mention that the emails between them hurt me with my fear of losing him increasing, he then said that its a chance that we both are taking and that I to may meet someone else, even though I have no interest. They never got to meet but I know he fell hard for her. The emails between them are hidden from me and never discussed. Is this something to be concerned over? He says to me that trust is the most important thing in a relationship, I would say thats one but honesty and loyalty is far more important.
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
Tell your boyfriend
I've been there, I actually would disagree with George. You haven't said exactly what was being said in the emails but it sounds like they were getting very friendly and chatting about meeting up in a romantic situation, I think you tell your b/f that yeah someone else might be round the corner but as you are not actively encouraging a new relationship he should be doing the same. I think he has a cheek to talk to you about trust when he is blatantly disregarding your feelings to chat to a stranger. Hope this helps.
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