Recently he has said it may be better that we don't live together

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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He has never done anything for me to suspect he is cheating, but because of a past relationship I have a hard time beleiving he isnt. I want to know who is calling, texting or what he is doing all the time. If he doesn't call when he leaves work, I freak out. I hate the person I have become, and I feel I have lost all control of myself. We live together and recently he has said it may be better that we don't. I feel that if I move out we will eventually fall apart, since we have lived together we are so used to each other being there and I think the shock of us not being there scares me. How can I overcome being jealous and wanting to know everthing?

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
No reason to doubt

Wow!! Sounds just like my situation w/ my b/f. We've been together for 3 years and he's never given me any reason to doubt him, though I do and I don't know why. Although, the only time I've ever heard him say "I love you" was on a night when we were both so plastered to the wall I'd rather not remember that night at all. It's been months since that night......nothing yet. : /
Hopefully, one day he'll come across the "I love you" letter I tucked away in a photo album he hasn't used yet.

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