while I love her with all my heart, I lie to her about stupid things

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I am having problems with trust in my marriage. My wife and I have been married for 6 months, and while I love her with all my heart, I lie to her about stupid things. I have been able to be truthful on large things like money matters, but the trust has been shattered. I am now faced the problem of getting the trust back I know its not an overnight solution, but I could do with some advice. Please help.

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Don't lie


listen talk to her with the truth, lying will help no one.
Remember if you married her is because you wanted to share everything with her even the smallest problems, if you lie its going to ruin everything wonderful that you had. You wont be able to gain the trust back so easily it takes time just be patient and say the truth dont lie.
I wish you the best of luck.

Good Luck!

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