I'm completely in love with her.

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There is this girl I have liked for 4 and a half years. No, not liked. I'm completely in love with her. The thing is, I think she liked me back 3 years ago but I'm not sure if she still has the same feelings. I never did anything about it cuz im a big pussy, but now I really want to. People tell me to get on with life and you probably will too, but that's the last thing I want to do. I know this is love because when I used to have crushes on girls, I would think about them giving me a bj or something, but when I think about this girl, all I want is to fall myself into her arms and for her to be happy. Love is something that lasts forever and I will never give up on this. There is only a year and a half left for me to make a move, but I'm still a big pussy. What should I do? I'm not sure if she will be in any of my classes next semester so I'm not sure if I'll ever see her to talk to her. I really hope she is in one of my classes...

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
This is your chance

If your this serious about this girl than you are gonna just have get out of your pussy shell and bring out that pimp suit you have not ever worn.talk to her. Here are a few tricks that would help you as it once helped me.

practice your talking skills buy talking to a mirror like if it was her.

once you build up your talking skills, know try to talking to her when ever you see her buy her self and just tell her how she's been and ask her alot of question about herself because girls love talking about themselves. and when she is talking make sure you are paying attetion to what she is saying and ask her question about similar things that she was taling about and from there it is very easy.

From there your confidence has grown and sence you have already done the first stem know you can turn it up a notch buy asking her out on a little date. For a first date take her to a school game or a little movie. And if she liked you while back then she will still have a feeling for you as long as you talk to her.

Then from there your will know what to do. Trust me on this one.

You only have one life to live and you will spend all your life wondering what could of happend if you told her.

This is your chance, This is your time

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